You may already know Tina through the blog she used to write about work-appropriate clothing for full-busted women. I loved seeing her outfit posts and reading about the issues she faced as a full-busted woman in a male-dominated industry. When outside demands (like her full-time job) got in the way of daily posts, I asked if she would consider writing a weekly post for Hourglassy. Happily, she said yes!
Meet me, a late 70’s born 30-something woman from Helsinki, Finland – the land of design, Nokia, Angry Birds, Formula 1 drivers, 187,888 lakes, four distinct seasons and, according to the Programme for International Student Assessment, the best educational system in the world. I work at a market-leading machinery company as a Business Intelligence development manager. I feel blessed to be able to work in such a multicultural global company, but it’s not the most feminine industry or department, so I with my 34GG bust and womanly looks struggle with a work wardrobe (well, casual wardrobe as well but not as much). Like Leah, I too adore my boobs and never have thought about getting a reduction or felt I suffered from them, but I only discovered well-fitting bras and how a bra should fit some five years ago.
Currently I’m UK size 14-16 but am on a health mission, so hopefully by Christmas I’ll be fitter and as a result a few clothing sizes smaller (and can fit into FF/G bras so that I can wear all those fabulous Marlies Dekkers and Parfait bras!). My current favorites are Freya and Kris Line. I’m pro any size or shape as long as people are happy and healthy in their bodies!
I’ve never had any major hang-ups with my body and the weight piled up slowly during my late twenties, but I accepted my figure as it grew. I am lucky enough to have long legs and a fairly proportioned body, but still I did not have any friends with a similar bust so was alone with trying to hunt down clothes or bras that would fit. I had to pass on all fitted or tailored clothes in stores and felt bummed out about that – my bust simply could not fit into them! Only stretchy clothes would fit + flowy tunics – those totally hid my figure. Then I started searching online for information, stores, any tips or hints for someone my shape. There wasn’t much to find, but I did discover Bravissimo, which at the time sold both clothes and underwear. Now it’s divided into Bravissimo and Pepperberry, their clothing brand. I became an active follower of their Facebook page and got to know some wonderful women all over the world that were a similar shape. I felt right at home. That led to blogging for a while, which led to getting to know Hourglassy and then Darlene.
My style is slightly conservative in the cleavage department. In general I don’t really feel that comfortable with showing a lot of it. I wear a lot of dresses and in the summer sandals and as soon as it’s cold enough I get my boot collection out. If I were to describe my style in three words it would be classic, rock, smart casual (if that counts as one word)–a varied combination of the three. So I am not the most traditional wearer of office clothing, and I often like to play with busty clothing rules and that can divide opinions. But I always want my clothes office appropriate. Dresses, boots, accessories and jackets/coats are my obsessions.
I am thrilled that Darlene asked me to be a guest columnist on Hourglassy – happy if my columns can maybe be of some help to a fellow busty woman. What you can expect to read from me is ramble + reviews about mainly office suitable clothes and occasional bra talk about the brands I wear – both come with accessories. ;) I will also share some general thoughts about being a busty woman in a corporate environment and how cultural differences play a role in all this–all the things that come with corporate curves!
and can also share info about horseriding apparel for busty women, it’s my dearest hobby and have been riding for well over 20 years. Dressage, trail riding, jumping, western. Looking forward to meeting lots of lovely ladies and discussing about curves & career related topics with fellow women!
I’ll be interested to hear what you’ve found for finding hunt coats/shadbellies and ratcatchers that fit the bust, allow for movement, but don’t add 20 lbs through the waist. Someone I used to ride with found a Stateline Tack with stretch coat to sort of work for open shows but I had too narrow of a waist in proportion to my bust, even when stateline was still around.
hey Katie, I will try to do a post in the near future on this with pictures 🙂 Have had some luck and have had to do alterations in the past.
Tina I am looking forward to your column!! I too am a curvy full busted woman in a male dominated field in a professional office. Would appreciate pants tips too – very very hard to find professional looking pants that fit hourglass figure. (Crescendo Apparel has no professional office attire style pants when I’ve looked). (and no dry clean only stuff unless it’s a suit or blazer – I don’t have time for that in my daily work wardrobe!!)
thank you Kara! And share your thoughts on dry clean only clothes, simply too time consuming. I wear dresses often but lately some pant styles as well, though in my work I can wear black or dark blue jeans with nice shoes and a jacket. Not sure if this applies to many workplaces. Have some other pants I use at work sometimes too so will definately do one pant style column. Apperciate all the feedback and post requests and will put all post requests on my posting calendar 🙂
I’m catching up with posts now, but I’m really excited about this! I also work in a male dominated field and struggle with work clothes a lot.