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Remember that feeling you get when you’d rather stay home than go out in anything in your closet? On Janie Bryant’s set, the “difficulty breathing, racing heartbeat, and sudden onset of agoraphobia” are all symptoms of “costume anxiety”. Her solution? Plan ahead.
In my job, I skirt this dreaded condition . . . by dutifully planning out each look for my characters. Once a script arrives, it’s time to page through and designate the right ensemble (from the pearl earrings to the garters) for every scene.
If Peggy Olson has a major presentation for clients at the agency, you can bet I create a suitable costume with some added panache like her blue linen two-piece suit with the self-piping. But my dogged foresight doesn’t stop there. On an index card I also jot down all of her undergarments and accessories, right down to the purse she will carry to that big meeting. Such preparations also allow me to plan out each episode and get a sense of the color schemes of all of my characters.
If you are prone to the occasional fashion panic attack–and, really, who isn’t?–do employ this handy strategy at home. You’re best off assessing your options a few days before a momentous event so you have some time to shop or dry-clean an item, if need be. Once you settle on a fantastic outfit, record the entire look in your fashion journal* and set all the pieces aside. Be sure to include the proper undergarments and even accessories.
Of course this isn’t rocket science for all you planners out there. But I’m more of a scrambler than a planner, and I need this advice. I will have a vague idea of how I want to look for an event and be surprised and stressed when it doesn’t come together at the last minute. So this advice helps me see that it’s okay to spend the time it takes to get ready beforehand.
After the jump, I share related advice from Janie Bryant regarding everyday wear.
This quote was a major “Aha!” passage for me:
Often women become flustered about the attire for a special occasion because they forgo effort on their daily appearance. If you’re accustomed to wearing overly casual togs, dressing for a semiformal luncheon or dinner party suddenly feels daunting. It’s a long leap from your comfort zone, no pun intended. But if you regularly maintain a high standard on the image you present, it’s much simpler to elevate that look to the next level for an event.
….An easy way to approach day-to-day style is to think of your look as a uniform. That doesn’t mean monotony, though. Rather, you want to isolate a simple look that works for you and assemble a few outfits in that vein.
This is exactly what I described last year. I still find myself in sweats at the end of a day at home sometimes, but I’m getting better. And for what it’s worth, the Mad Men characters don’t spend their time off the set in the vintage undergarments that they wear for the show.
*I’m not going to go so far as to keep a fashion journal, but elsewhere in the book, Bryant makes a great suggestion to keep a running list of anything you need so that you’re prepared for each shopping opportunity. For instance, I need more black tights. I’m not going to make a special trip for them, but if they’re on my list, I’ll remember to pick up a pair the next time I’m out.
I've started photographing outfits when I come up with one I particularly like. I hope to gather a bunch of photographs sorted by event or style (work, weekend, party, etc.) and have them printed into a book for me to reference when my creativity is low.
Aamba, I am in awe.
Here's a comment emailed to me from Anina at Brazen Lingerie this afternoon (after she ran into issues trying to comment directly). I'm so glad you wrote this, Anina, so that I know I'm not the only reforming scrambler out there.
I absolutely remember the feeling of when I’d rather stay home than wear what’s in my closet! Remember? Heck it still happens!
There have been a number of evenings that I just decide to stay home because I couldn’t figure out what to wear and if this or that would be appropriate. Making sure I don’t wait until the last minute has been a huge shift for me recently. I always found myself digging through the closet only to find the perfect item in a ball on the floor waiting to be taken to the dry cleaners. This would then turn to me trying to throw anything together in a rush and that would result in me being more late than normal and I’d just decide to not go at all.
Now, if I have enough notice about the event, I rummage though well in advance and if I find that ball or don’t find what I need, I still have enough time to make it happen. Having always been a lingerie fanatic, I’ve not usually had a problem with finding the right bra. But, I will confess that, on more than one occasion, I have “shopped†at my store for the perfect shaper on the way to an event! Pathetic, I know.
I don’t exactly maintain a high standard on my image, but I can say that since I now pay more attention to my appearance because of work, it has become easier to go to the next level for an event. But, there is always room for improvement.
I think your idea of keeping a running list is fantastic! I do it with groceries, I can certainly do it with fashion staples.
It's still a work in progress, I'm just building it up slowly. But I love organizing things, that's one of my hobbies!
I love reading how much thought goes behind costumes!! It makes me feel like I either need to start giving my own wardrobe this much thought, or hire Janie Bryant for some help. I think I go through phases of extreme accessorizing (down to undergarments) and then to completely not caring. I’m somewhere in between right now…